I wonder what you need to say “no” to.
I wonder what right thing you need to embrace simply because it is right.
I love thinking about the “yes”! A new adventure? YES! A new rug? YES! A new house? YES! I appreciate new opportunities.
But any “yes” requires accompanying “no’s”! I cannot set as a goal to fit into my slinky black dress without saying “no” to my desire to eat an entire carrot cake for lunch. (Don’t judge, it’s a vegetable.)
As we practice unlearning helplessness – that feeling that there is nothing we can do to make a difference – it is time to start making some decisions.